Detach with Love

The picture is a four years old. Trying to find a visual metaphor for loving but not liking I came across this photo. Love to eat, don't always like available choices. Similarly, I love Sarah dearly but find some choices odious. Pretty weak visual but at the same time this is a reminder of a daughter sick with addiction whom I love. (Erin, I love both my daughters, daughters in law, and grandkids, too!)

This afternoon's weather is like a Michigan kind of day. Cool breezes took away the humidity and left a cool, clear day. We are looking forward to the extended family gathering in August. Another pleasant thought and future memory!

We've eaten dinner with Sarah three times this week and she actually slept at home last night. Small steps, little set-backs, but contact! Nice gift! Susan's stress level is lower right now. Right now she's taking a Saturday nap on the couch. (Life is so good when the drain is unclogged and the dryer vent is clear!)

Other good news? Not hard to find. The new job is stimulating, complex, and in an office full of skilled, kind, and dedicated workers.

The parent support group at Fairbanks touches its participants through active listening, empathy, and shared trials. The environment is upbeat although the stories are chilling. Over time we gain strength, we get reinforcement, and encouragement. We come to know the children as parents describe their journey week after week. Admitting that we need support from others in this forum is a lesson in humility rewarded by touch of another. And so it is when family and friends extend compassion and cheer. That's what I think, especially today when things are pretty darn good.

Detaching with love has helped up. Your encouragement is so appreciated.